Are bad neighbors giving you a headache? Read further for tips to handle them.
The existence of bad neighbors is pretty much unpredictable. You see, most rules prevent realtors and community associations from disclosing the specific individual characters when you are making enquiries. All you can only do before settling into your dream home is to conduct a general research on the regulations of the housing community and likewise but there is no guarantee you will not bump into bad neighbors because they may move in after you.
We are bound to compromise in our ways of life when living in a community. Of course there is a line to draw and this is when you have to assess whether you are merely overreacting or it is really too much to accept the bullying from your neighbors. If your neighbors’ kids skate on the public pathway in front of your lawn, it is not illegal. But when your neighbors hold a birthday party beyond the permitted time, blasting loud music, throwing rubbish onto your yard or build an unapproved extension structure, etc. these are nuisance and you have to stamp your foot down.
Some neighbors may be just ignorant and hardly realize their actions are making others miserable. Who can blame them if no one has ever highlighted their ‘mischief’? Communicate your concerns to them in a friendly manner first. They may surprise you with their corrective behavior.
If the problems persist, stern actions must be taken. Before you make your next move, gather evidence which will be handy to build up your case. Take pictures, get another witness or jot down the details in a list. You can then approach your community association for advice or reprimands. If there is still no response, seek help from your local council or representative before forking out your money for legal advice.
If direct confrontation is not your cup of tea, try delivering your message indirectly. For example, in front of your neighbor tell your kids to place the trash can within the house compound or not to switch on the speaker so loud. Sooner or later, your neighbor should get the hint. If not, it is then up to you whether you want to continue to suffer silently or seek further help
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